Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Jeremiah 29:11

Just needed to let everyone know that my OB appointment yesterday didn't go anything as I had thought it would. During the ultrasound, we discovered that the baby had passed - there was no heartbeat. He/she measured only 9w1d and I was 10w2d, so we are estimating it happened about a week ago. It was very sobering and shocking as I had no indication that anything was wrong, and of course, never expected to miscarry what seemed to be a perfect pregnancy.

Today I underwent a D&C with M & my hubby by my side. I am home resting now and hope to be feeling better tomorrow.

BUT, we have all talked and are already focused on another try. The IVF clinic said we could be looking to transfer again within 2 or 3 months! So, until then I'm going to heal and prepare to begin the process again :)

17 comments:

Katrina said...

I'm so sorry for all of you at this loss. I'll be praying that your next try is more successful.

Just Sold By Jennifer! said...

I am so sorry, But God Knows why I will pray for that couple. That is the hardest thing I know!

Allison said...

You know we are all praying for each of you. Love you!

Ethan, Zach, and Emma's Mom said...

I am so sorry! Praying for you.

star122802 said...

So sorry I know its hard I lost a twin for my IPs so I kinda know how your feeling. Praying for you and your IPs

and surro makes 3 said...

Jennifer I am so sorry, how heartbreaking for you and your IPs :(
My thoughts are with you

Susy Pennington said...

Im sorry for you and your IPs loss. I know what you are going through as I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks with our first transfer. It was tough, but you have to remember that things always happen for a reason. Let me know if you need to talk.

bumpfairy said...

Oh, I am so sorry. I had a surro loss at 10 weeks as well, I know just how you're feeling. Well.. my agency tried to blame me for the loss, but my IF stood beside me and our second transfer ended with twin princesses, who just turned two. You will get through this, and WOO HOO for having such understanding supportive IP's!

Andrea said...

My thoughts are with you, your family and your IP's. I will pray for a speedy recovery and successful second transfer for you guys.

lindasjournal said...

I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. You and the other family are in my thoughts adn prayers.

Surrogate, Single Parent and Dating... said...

Jennifer - I'm so sorry to hear this!!! We were so close together too. I will keep you and your IP's in my prayers. Here's to the next successful transfer. Hang in there. I sent you an email with my number so feel free to call anytime if you'd like to talk or get together.

braejuma said...

Oh no! That is so unfortunate. My thoughts are with all of you....positive thoughts for the next transfer!

Kelly & Her Uterus said...

*sigh* I'm so sorry. Take some time and when you try again, you know we'll all be here with you and Your IPs.

Membership Required said...

Oh Jennifer, so sorry to hear the news. Sad for all involved. Heal and take all the grief to the Lord. Only he will know why.

Hugs, ML

TXSurromom said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope for fast healing for all of your hearts.

Krystal said...

I stumbled upon your blog, but I just wanted to say I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I went through the same thing with my 1st surro journey and it was devestating. Take time to heal and prepare yourself for the next stage.
Healing hugs to you.

A womb for rent said...

Oh this just brakes my heart! I am so so sorry :(